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This shouldn’t even be need to be said but don’t fucking report people who express being suicidal. I don’t care how much you think you’re doing it for someone’s own good, it does NOT help us it only harms further
READ that AGAIN
You are ACTIVELY harming those people when you try to be a goody two-shoes and tell on them when they get suicidal
Don’t fucking report them to social media app features that have the report for self harm option. Don’t fucking call a suicide hotline on them. Don’t fucking report them to therapists, paychiatrists, cops, controlling parents or partners
It does not matter how uncomfortable it makes you - this isn’t ABOUT you - it doesn’t matter how much it goes against your cute little saviour complex thinking you’re being oh such a wonderful kind heroic person by “saving” someone from themself.
When you report a person to any of those places it heavily risks hospitalisation and incarceration. Where I live it’s technically still a crime to attempt suicide, they never overturned the law. And if you think being in a ward might help them - do everyone a favour and go check out the actual conditions in the wards and talk to psych survivors about how they actually are. Otherwise shut up about things you have no experience with.
Everyone should have a right to autonomy, especially bodily autonomy, and you don’t have to like what they do with their own body for you to know not to take that away from someone. It’s not your place to judge, it’s not okay to be moralistic about bodily autonomy suddenly because you can’t handle the reality of mentally ill people.
And it’s not fucking okay to lock us in and remove us from society just because our disorders are too fucking ugly for you to look at.
If you absolutely have to help just talk to a suicidal person if they’re up to it, just ask them what will help, and if you can’t do that then leave us the fuck alone you snitches
And don’t come at me with the law, if you had to be an ally to mentally ill people, to queer people, to women, to any kind of marginalised people, historically a lot of it has always included standing against the law and with us.
calling every gnc cis person you see an “egg waiting to crack” even as a joke is not cool or funny at all actually it is extremely invasive and weird and you are just reinventing gender roles but making it “progressive”
is it just me or is this is an extremely weird thing to say about a random stranger based on nothing but a snippet of an eavesdropped conversation
last time i made a post abt this i got fucking eviscerated lmao but that’s prob bc i had the audacity to mention how this intersects with race and ethnicity, how y’all LOVE to forcibly feminize east asian and jewish men then ignore centuries of harmful stereotypes you’re playing into.
Its absolutely a weird and invasive thing to say. Especially because non-binary people can choose to present in mixed ways instead of androgynously. Especially because everyone should be allowed to choose scents, colors, products, patterns, and clothing that they LIKE, without it having to be based on gender. Because masculine people should be allowed to smell like flowers or wear pretty things if they just fucking want to.
This is something I noticed a TON on Twitter and fucking hated it.
As soon as a man is the LEAST bit feminine, or what white western society perceives as feminine, he will be called a trans girl. And I obviously don’t have anything against trans girls or recognizing yourself in others and shit, but like
You fucking can’t destroy gender roles by rigorously enforcing them.
Stop calling every cis man who likes “girly” stuff a woman. Y'all know this is also homophobic as shit, right? Y'aal know that’s also MISGENDERING, RIGHT??
Let people like what they like. A guy who likes skirts and nail polish? Cool. Unless HE HIMSELF says otherwise, he’s a guy. Stop this shit.
Real people are not your blorbos to project your experiences onto. If you relate to something that a cis person does, that just means that a cis person is relatable to you, which is not, in fact, a bad thing.
this was an unpopular take in recent history but i truly believe it is possible to care about your friends and acquaintances and be a good friend while simultaneously hoping their lame ass boyfriend (theres always one) dies in a boating accident or falls into a well or smth
